5 secrets of preservation of successful family
They say that life kills family. But now, when services industry infrastructure when to services of family laundries, car services, kindergartens, fast kitchen, the delivery services are always available is developed, all the same it is difficult to keep the relations. So means, it is not life? Yes, not in it. More precisely, not absolutely in it.
Instruction
1. The secret of family wellbeing – if "jams" life and there are no forces to continue the full-fledged matrimonial relations, shift a part of work for hired or volunteer assistants. For example, if there is no opportunity to take away and bring the child into kindergarten, it is possible to employ the driver, the nurse, to ask relatives or even friends – to offer the last a small reward. And about the house volunteer assistants – your children can help. Even if your children are small, all the same they can undertake a part of responsibility, and your family will have more time for rest and the general pastime.
2. A secret – count the forces. It is not necessary to write down children in 33 circles even if each of them brings "undoubted benefit". You do not get a dog in the one-room apartment. Do not take a side job for the weekend if there is no severe need in money. All this leads to decrease in forces, increase in a stress – and, as a result, to cooling of the relations between spouses.
3. A secret – trust. You with the spouse need to learn to trust the friend. You have to calibrate to the partner even the most intimate thoughts and desires. It is not necessary to be afraid of straight talks even if it is a shame to bring up the subject or it is terrible. It is bad if in family the interests of one of spouses are ignored or if one suppresses the influence another.
4. A secret – solve problems in family. It is not necessary to create the coalitions with relatives, you do not share with parents as you were offended by the husband or as the wife is not able to speak. All misunderstanding need to be solved "small party". And any quarrels in the face of children – they quickly will tell everything to the grandmothers and grandfathers, and those to hurry to reconcile "the conflicting parties".
5. A secret – consider personal space of each other. Sometimes each person needs to be alone. But matter not only in it. Interests also enter personal space. If your soulmate has weaknesses or traditions – for example, to go on New Year's Eve with friends to a bath, then it is not necessary to forbid it. And if and something is not pleasant to you from hobbies of the partner – do not participate in it, but also do not condemn.
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