As well as about what to start talking to the girl not to be sent
Communication with the girl – the whole art, at the same time is especially important the first impression which you make. Depends on it whether this acquaintance will have continuation.
Instruction
1. Being going to start talking to the girl, be oneself. You should not pose as the one whom you actually are not. All your attempts add to itself others advantages can raise irritation or a sarcastic smile only. Besides the girl will understand at once that you are not sure of yourself, you have not enough experience of communication with women, and you in general feel inconveniently in this situation.
2. Do not go to extremes: do not begin acquaintance with trite jokes, jokes or with a boring and long story about the invention of the first plane. As a rule, most of girls do not love too free and also too boring guys. Also you should not use old and long ago everything the bored phrases traps. The question "Where Is Nofelt?" was relevant about thirty years ago. And in general try to avoid the silly questions which are contrary to the reality surrounding you - as a rule, similar jokes of special delight do not cause in girls.
3. Do not get used to an image of the clown, the humour has to be used within limits. Gravity, adequacy, sincerely valid tone – all this will not allow the girl to send you where far away.
4. If you though know something about interests and hobbies of the girl, it will be simpler to you to find a common language. Start talking to her that it is interesting to it, be not afraid to ask questions if you do not know something. Only do not forget that your interest has to be really sincere.
5. Pay attention to the appearance, state of mind and a look - it is that the girl estimates at the first moments of communication with you. If these components of your image are debalanced and it is far from harmonious, hardly with you will want to continue acquaintance. You should not try to meet the girl and in alcohol intoxication, it gives even more chances to be sent.
6. Beginning a conversation with the girl, you should not dart the estimating glances at her. It is the best of all to look in the face or in a point on a forehead over a nose bridge. To take a look aside or to send it to itself under legs it is also not recommended - it is an indicator of diffidence. But also do not pose as the macho. Golden mean – here what any sane person has to adhere to.
7. Smile, meeting the girl. At the same time your smile has to be the most natural, and a look open and benevolent. To you it is not necessary to let loose hands the first minutes of acquaintance or to gesticulate strongly them. You should not keep them in pockets also.
8. Avoid unprintable expressions and others, far from the standard standards of behavior, actions. Try to relax and derive pleasure from a conversation, do not answer questions in monosyllables and do not make long pauses. Everything has to be most natural, then the girl by all means will estimate all your best qualities.
9. Think up an interesting occasion to start a conversation with the stranger, it will depend in many respects on circumstances under which you met. If it happened, for example, in bar, it is possible to discuss any dish or the sounding music if at an art exhibition – about artists, etc. Only you should not be fond of those subjects which are uninteresting to the girl.
10. Call the girl by name after it becomes known to you. It causes big degree of trust, however you should not go to far. For half an hour of communication 1-2 times are enough to say aloud her name. Also do not forget that girls appreciate respect and the sincere interest shown to them.
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