Conventional attitudes: what they
Often the relations in family become more cool, than were in the beginning. Reasons for that set: partners lose interest to each other or are disappointed, but nevertheless do not disperse. Such attitudes are called conventional.
Conventional attitudes can be considered in many aspects. On the one hand, it is a synonym of the official relations, it is applied to the description of the partnership between several people fixed by some framework and rules. For example, in a workplace it is necessary to adhere to conventional attitudes. The relations informal which need to be avoided, on the contrary, at work, especially at communication of heads and subordinates will be a counterbalance to them. However absolutely other look have conventional attitudes in family life.
Conventional attitudes in family life
Besides that the family relations become registered documentary, the term "conventional attitudes" in family life is considered in aspect of lack of any feelings. The relations between two partners in that case exist, marriage is confirmed officially, but actually there is no love between the husband and the wife for a long time. They live together just formally, perhaps, raise together children or live nearby already just from a habit. Such relations do not exist as the union of two loving hearts long ago, most likely, they do not bear in themselves even respect or trust to each other.
There is also other type of conventional attitudes: when one of spouses considers a system and an order the highest form of manifestation of respect for the partner. In such family the strict hierarchy works, from children parents need implicit submission, from the wife - submission to the husband. Everyone in such family has the role and a sort of duties which should be carried out. That behavior to which he has to follow is attributed to each family member. The officiality and following to rules and traditions becomes a main goal of the similar relations. The speech about heat and mutual understanding, a joint cheerful sit-round gathering and the loving relation in such families, of course, too does not go.
How to avoid conventional attitude in family
You should not treat too strictly members of household and to transfer the attitude towards them from other sphere of life. The people they not subordinated, and loving, the most expensive for each other therefore in family it is necessary to allow them to be such what they are. It is worth looking at family from a different angle: it optional has to be ideal, there will be enough already fact that parents and children will be able to tell each other about the pleasures and experiences, to discuss interesting events, to spend time together and with pleasure. It is very important that all family members could express the opinion and knew that them can listen and accept their point of view. It is good if parents trust children, to be interested in their life and progress, to allow them to take part in family councils. It will strengthen trust in family, will make it stronger, and the relations less formal.
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