How to be defined in family

 During creation of family we usually do not think whose leadership skills are stronger. The love, passion and desire to live all life near the elect governs us. But happens that, having faced the first family problems, we cannot quickly define the place, the duties and the role in family. Nevertheless it needs to be cleared as soon as possible to avoid quarrels and various unpleasant consequences.

Instruction

1. Despite ancient traditions, following which, the man has to become in the head of the family and build family life on the beliefs, presently more often the woman undertakes control of ""the family ship"". Soberly estimate the character and character of the spouse. If your husband is a leader at heart, then you should not challenge his superiority in family, it will not bring to good. Give way to it heads of family, besides the few privileges it also brings in itself a set of cares and duties. But happens and so that character of the man quiet and modest, in this case he with ease delegates to the wife the powers of the head. There are also such families in which the equality and mutual respect reigns. To reach such ""ideal"" to some couples happens extremely difficult.

2. Even if in your family the head - the man, it does not deprive of you the right to participate in important family processes. Often the man only makes on surrounding an impression of the family leader whereas actually to all he is pushed by the clever and cunning wife. At the correct policy even the obstinate man will begin to do that you want, and will be sure sincerely that all his acts depend only on him. What for this purpose is necessary? First, always maintain confidence of the husband that in your family he is a full owner. Show it that you need it that without it you will not cope with anything, then the husband will help you. Be not afraid to seem weak, in each man the condescension to a female is put. You praise the husband if he executed any your assignment, even the smallest. Men are not indifferent to praises even if they do not show it externally. Do not wait for the help, and you ask that the spouse helped you.

3. If you after all decided to undertake leadership, it also your right. But do not forget that it is necessary the leading female very difficult, she has to not only control family life, but also carry out maternal and household chores. It will be twice difficult if at the same time you also do yourself career. The women who are main in family often assimilate to men, adopt their lines - rigidity and even roughness, they should shoulder very much to themselves. At the same time their husbands often lose interest in them as do not receive tenderness, kindness, caress and care. Also involuntarily their natural instinct of the getter, supporter, owner is suppressed.

4. The optimal variant is to achieve family equality. Important decisions have to be made mutually. Let to reign in family care, mutual respect and mutual support. In such favorable family climate the husband and the wife become more sure of themselves and of the opportunities, they aspire to new tops because they know that they have a support. In equal family everyone carries out the duties.

5. Whatever type of the family relations you chose for yourself, the main thing that you were happy together that it gave pleasure to you to live (but not to survive) together. Therefore the earlier you define the place in family, the your joint life will be quieter and happier.

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