How to begin joint life
Very often loving couples dream to begin joint life quicker. However many love boats crashed against life. That it did not occur, you from the very beginning need to be prepared for compromises and obligations.
Instruction
1. Be defined where you will live. The best option is
to rent apartment. In it both of you will be in the equal family way and will
even more approach, equipping "nest". Moving to the apartment of the
beloved or beloved, do not try at once to begin to bring the orders. In advance
it is worth discussing where there will be your personal space and a workplace
where it is possible to put things.
2. Divide household chores. Not to sadden joint life
quarrels, from the first day solve who takes out garbage, washes the dishes,
prepares, etc. It is not obligatory to divide duties into men's and women's at
all. The one who likes to be engaged in it, or the one who comes from work
earlier can prepare. The contribution of both spouses to housekeeping has to be
approximately identical, otherwise not avoid the conflicts.
3. Decide what will be your budget – joint or separate
as you will plan large expenses who will pay bills, to buy products, etc. The
monetary issue often is not discussed by young families because of the sensitivity.
As a result someone from spouses can begin to think that it spends more for
family. Offenses will collect and can become the cause of a quarrel.
4. Discuss the prospect to become parents. The fact
that you live together does not mean at all that you are ready to bring the
child. However have to know about it both, otherwise one day the young spouse
can "please" darling with news of the pregnancy.
5. Respect personal space of the person with which you
live. The family is necessary not "to attach" darling to itself and
not to release. Agree about time which you will spend on meetings with friends,
hobbies, etc.
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