How to construct the family relations I
t as in the song: "White dress, white veil". Or as in the fairy tale: "They lived long and happily". Here only how to construct happy family life? That the house – "a full bowl", in which "seven on benches", and at the head "the husband and the wife – one Satan". In general, whether it is possible to build up the family relationship or they develop in itself under unknown laws?
Instruction
1. As a rule, the first questions to each other arise
just next day after the termination of "honeymoon". And here it is very important how you
will behave: at once you will begin to clash or you will learn to agree. And if
the wedding remained far in the past, and you just now attended to
harmonization of your relations, then nothing terrible too. The main thing is
to follow several simple rules, and happiness in family life will surely return
to you.
2. Rule first is attention each other. Be interested
as there passed it day what yours dreams of "second half" in what
occasion she longs. Remember that participation in the fate of the native person is invaluable. However avoid
extremes, that is notorious "peeping in a mouth" and prevention of
desires – to good oh as quickly get used!
3. Rule second is the help in word and deed. Be ready to come on the
first call, to listen the whole nights a story about his sincere experiences and to iron
out arrows on trousers. An excess – to forget about own life and to adapt
completely to its plans.
4. – be able to tell rule third "no". For
example, if you are absolutely sure that you do not want the third child, hold the ground even if the
husband dreams of the sweet little daughter. However you always have to be able
to prove the point of view logically. It has to be the firm position, but not a
hysterics.
5. And, at last, the main rule – love does not happen
much! You tell tender words if you have gentle nicknames – use in private
communication, make each other gifts and, of course, make a declaration of love
even if you together 20 years, and, apparently, between you long ago everything
is clear.
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