How to keep the family I
mpartial statistics demonstrates that more than a half of marriages break up today. Why occurs so what people who sincerely loved each other still yesterday and swore eternal fidelity submit the declaration of avoidance of marriage today and also sincerely hate? If to analyze experience of those married couples which managed to keep the family then it is possible to draw conclusions and to make recommendations that who wishes it too.
Instruction
1. Never refuse each other attention and caress. You
should have no taboo subjects and subjects uninteresting for another. Take for
the rule to discuss the affairs and to consult with each other, be interested in that, how was your day,
endure troubles together and support the partner by the love and belief in his forces.
2. Turn the house into that place where to you it is
cozy and comfortable where with pleasure your friends come. Adapt your family
nest for life together, but leave in it the place where everyone,
if necessary, can be alone. At all your love to each other, everyone can have moments
when the loneliness is just physically necessary.
3. Respect the right of each other for personal space
and trust the partner. He needs to visit sometimes friends or girlfriends too,
perceive it as an extra reason to miss the friend the friend. Lyubov lives
where there are freedom and trust.
4. Have own interests and hobbies, do not live in a
shadow of the spouse. Do not create a situation when your presence becomes
burdensome, and your attention – too persuasive. Try to hold a distance and to
give advice and recommendations only when you about it are asked.
5. You do not stay at home on days off – find to
yourself joint occupation which can become a visit of cinema, walk on the park
or a trip to the country. Communicate more often and generously you share with
each other the favourite places, books, dreams.
6. Also do not allow intervention in the family
affairs of strangers, whether it be friends, relatives or parents.
Consciousness that responsibility for your marriage lies only on you two helps
to concern to it more seriously and in every possible way to protect it.
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