How to keep the relations in family
Treason is always associated with treachery, neglect, humiliation. It seems that the divorce is inevitable. The critical situation, but an exit nevertheless is. What to do if the relations fall, and the reason for that - treason of the husband? How to endure, keep family, to protect children from spiritual wounds?
Instruction
1. You do not hurry to make the decision on a divorce. Give yourself time to comprehend a situation, to calm down, consult to close people. The decision which you are going to accept will change life, the relations, habits. You should live in absolutely new conditions, to fight against the thoughts and offenses, to look for in yourself forces, to learn to understand and trust. Council: it is possible to take a vacation and to go for several days to the sea, to the village, to other city. To change scenery, to think, retire, vanish.
2. Talk to the husband. In the first few days constructive conversation it will not turn out. So the female mentality is arranged. Protective reaction of women in such situation – the active psychological attack by a word. The conflict can drag on. Readiness for discussion surely will arise over time therefore do not ignore the previous council. Council: Jokes about treason will help to improve mood before a conversation. Read a little - and at heart will become more cheerful.
3. Do not try to meet the mistress. Keep the nerves. What difference who is she how looks, than is engaged? She is not a competitor if after the conversation with the husband you were convinced of mutual intention to keep the relations. The meeting will only aggravate a situation. There will be a conflict between women which to extinguish not imperiously even time. Council: Adultery is the conflict of two. The less people will know about details – the better.
4. Begin to change. The aspiration to change is always present at the woman. Treason is a reason for change of a hairstyle, hair color, a make-up, even clothes style. You new, not such as yesterday, such you were not yet. This internal emotional component is capable to create a miracle. External changes will be surely followed by internal: character, habits, behavior. To live in a new image, to correspond to it – you have to aspire to it. Council: If you wear glasses – replace them with contact lenses. It is possible to pick up color lenses and to emphasize with that expressiveness of a look.
5. Pay special attention to the sexual relations. Sex is differently perceived by the man and the woman. For the man – this pleasure, and for the woman – intimate proximity. Try to replace approach and just to derive pleasure from process. At the first stage – it is the only thing to do. And over time feelings of proximity and an emotional unification will return. Council: Pay attention to sexual role-playing games. Perhaps it is worth trying?
6. You do not cope – address the psychologist. If the feeling of hopelessness does not leave, self-confidence was taken away by treason of the husband - advice of the psychologist will help to restore composure. Do not hesitate to ask for the qualified help.
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