How to keep the relations in marriage I

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 n any marriage lasting not one year there are recessions and rises in the relations between spouses. Learn what rules of conduct in family need to conform to partners that joint life still for many years brought only love and happiness.

Instruction

1. In our society it is considered that the more married people live together, the it is less at them than common interests. But such banalities as a habit, children and impossibility to part on different apartments help not to terminate the marriage agreement. In a couple of years to spouses it seems to joint life that they know any thoughts of each other, and there is no need to speak about it.

2. Most often such view of things also results in lack of mutual understanding and accumulation of mutual offenses. The relations in marriage in many respects remain exactly thanks to ignorance of the partner. It is necessary to be interested, first of all, in its affairs and hobbies, but not to build a silence wall with a thought: "I and so know everything, and its hobby is not interesting to me".

3. It is necessary to listen to the soulmate daily, proposing the solution of the arisen problem. But, most often, there is a lot of justifications to indifference: lack of time, fatigue, work, household chores, children.

4. Slowly but surely destroying marriage very few people think prior to a divorce of what could be undertaken during joint life. And it is easy to keep the relations in marriage, it is enough to conform to some rules only.

5. It is necessary to love, without expecting anything in reply. It means that the love and support has to be a constant even if the spouse at some point cannot answer the same, without reproaches and expectations.

6. It is necessary to convince himself that "nobody has to nothing". Many spouses consider that the partner has no moral right to refuse performed by desires. But it not so, each person has the right for the desires and opinion which he, is, and do not correspond to the spouse's thoughts.

7. Not to take offense. To store in offense heart, at least, not structurally. It is necessary to tell the spouse, than he offended and to ask not to do so any more. If one spouses offended another, it is necessary to apologize immediately, but not to wait what will somehow be forgotten over time.

8. Never to criticize each other. You should not amuse yourself with a thought that you criticize with good intentions. The criticism is only attempt to prove to other, less successful spouse own opinion and superiority. Besides, it does not make sense to state with irritation at all as it was possible to arrive if all the same you do not change anything any more.

9. And the last. Marrying, it is necessary to remember that any relations are the work demanding patience, attention, love and understanding. It is silly to complain for the spoiled lived years and not to make efforts for change of a situation. The only opportunity to keep the relations is to love each other.

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