How to strengthen family
Olga and Sasha – age-mates, to them on 30. In marriage of 9 years. And, it seems, everything at them is good: decent work (both designers), the two-room apartment with almost paid mortgage, 3-year "Mazda". The son – the first grader … But something began to disappear, and, it "something" - the most important.
Instruction
1. Someone calls it "I will merge lives",
someone - passion, someone – the life filled with emotions and impressions.
When "something" disappears, the family relations need global reset. Them it is necessary
to refresh, stimulate them and, thereby, to strengthen family. Let's try to
understand as to make it. When couples come to the first consultation to the
family psychologist, them ask to admit that they want actually: to keep the relations or to leave the smallest losses for itself and
children. Let's consider that you spoke in favor of marriage. Then we will start.
2. The first and most important that you need to make
is to realize that you are ready to live with the partner all the life, at
least, as matters stand. And it is in a temper much simpler to declare it, than
to
answer deliberately "yes". After you realize that
the person who near you, – dearest and favourite, everything will become much
simpler. You have already no place and there will be no need to run, look for
the better lot and happiness behind "seven seas".
3. The following task – association of interests. It
is possible even if you are too different. For some reason you chose each
other. You go to the cinema, campaigns, on dances. Draw, build, walk with a
dog. Travel, swim, you lie on a sofa. Anything, if only it was cheerful and
interesting to you with each other. And still you have to have a common goal.
Will approach as household (to make repair, to build giving), and
high-spiritual (to know God, to find meaning of life). An indispensable
condition – the purpose has to really inspire, prevent to sleep you at the
nights and to force to be constantly in dialogue with each other.
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