Life after the wedding
Official marriage significantly changes the relations between partners. It is caused by what changes mental conditions of the man and the woman. As a rule, the men's mentality becomes more vulnerable, and women's – steadier.
According to psychologists, the reason disappears in
different outlook and a divergence of the reasons on which the person enters
into marriage alliance. The woman marries to find protection and confidence in
tomorrow, the man, as a rule, is afraid to lose freedom and independence.
Owners of the healthiest mentality are those who
through a long time after a marriage managed to keep the gentle and kind
relations. Others, on the contrary, constantly look for in each other
shortcomings. Such relations will not lead to anything good and, most likely,
will break up in the nearest future.
There are three psychological types of character of
the person. The first type is "taciturn persons" who do not enter
conflict situations, trying to evade responsibility. The second type –
"debaters", are instigators of scandals, eat energy of the partner.
The third type – "consultants", they after listening and considering
make the decision, optimum for both partners, in any situation. For
preservation of the normal relations after the wedding it is recommended to
choose the partner of similar psychological type that will allow to react to
the arising situations equally. It is rather difficult to different types to
find a compromise solution that often leads to family breakdown. Even if the
relations after the wedding significantly differ from desirable or previous
actions of the partner, you should not despair and accept hasty decisions. It
is necessary to analyze a situation, to learn to understand and hear darling,
to try to adapt without prejudice to both. Of course, both spouses have to
adhere to this policy that will result in positive result and adjustment of the
family relations. The main secret of happy family is mutual understanding and mutual
respect of each other.
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