Mutual understanding as basis of strong family I

 n families which live "in perfect harmony" the main secret of the strong and harmonious relations is mutual understanding. Not all as partners usually have different opinions manage to reach it and not always make concessions each other in any given situation. However with patience and respect of others point of view, it is possible to grow in the family full mutual understanding which will allow to avoid many crises and the conflicts.

Absence reasons

Most often mutual understanding is absent in families where spouses superficially treat problems and cares of each other, selfishly concentrating only on the requirements and desires. As a result of similar immunity to the partner, the relations gradually come to naught, and spouses move off in searches of the one who will be able to understand them and to accept. Also problems with mutual understanding arise in families where it is not accepted to spend time together. It leads to the fact that two absolutely foreign persons who are not interested in leisure of the partner that contributes to the development of harmonious and trusting relationship a little begin to live in one apartment over time.

Most often spouses cannot reach mutual understanding for one simple reason – they just do not want to hear each other.

Quite often the relations in respect of understanding do not develop for the reason that each partner tries "to adjust" the half to some ideals to which, in their understanding, the ideal husband / wife is obliged to correspond. At the same time the "adjusted" partner begins to feel sharply the mythical inferiority and to try to realize all desires of darling, not person interested to understand and accept his identity. Not less important role in lack of mutual understanding is also played by a discrepancy of sexual requirements – it becomes the cause of a divorce of many couples. Spouses it is banal not can harmonize the relations in a bed as discussion of sexual preferences of the partner for them is a categorical taboo.

How to achieve mutual understanding

First of all it is necessary to listen to the partner with original, but not counterfeit interest "if only got rid". It is almost impossible to reach full mutual understanding without straight talks and the analysis told. Besides, very much its emergence is promoted by existence of common interests which allow spouses to understand better each other and more deeply to plunge into the world of the half. Knowledge of problem zones of the partner gives the chance to understand that it is necessary for it in a crisis situation – for example if the person wants to be alone, it is not necessary to torment him with questions and inappropriate support, and to feel his desire and to respect him. In families where the husband or the wife are inclined to take offense at different trifles and also to be jealous in an occasion and without, mutual understandings to achieve very difficult. It is very important to learn to speak about the family life, discussing with the partner of a problem and difficulty, arisen in family. At the same time a lot of things depend on frankness degree – the it is higher, the it is more than chances of reaching consensus as this line just disarms many. Besides discussion of a negative, it is also necessary to share with each other positive emotions, views and feelings – it strongly brings together people whatever different they were.

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