The marriage reasons without love I
deally get married out of great love. But, unfortunately, in life there are such cases and circumstances under which marriage can exist also without love. What on it there are reasons?
Instruction
1. The love is not eternal and, unfortunately, passes.
If you initially married the person to whom you had strong feelings, then over
time the love can pass. But the respect and a habit to live with this person
remains therefore many people when the love passes, remain with this person
whom they well know, know his merits and demerits.
2. The love is not an obligatory component of strong
marriage. "Paradise in a tent" - of course, is in this statement a
grain of truth, but everyone wants to live in comfortable conditions and to be
protected. Many people get married, being based not only on love, they need
certain guarantees of stability and safety.
3. One more factor is a presence of children from the
previous marriages. That children felt well and comfortably, entering the new
relations, the parent chooses such partner who will correspond to certain
criteria and will be good replacement of the father or mother. Often the women
and men marrying under such circumstances are based not on romantic feelings.
4. There are people who are held a little down in the
feelings, they cannot openly speak about them. Such people make the choice for
that partner in which they find many important merits, choosing as reason, but
not feelings. Near such partner quietly, comfortably, the lifestyle coincides.
5. Many girls marry practically the first who made
them such proposal as are afraid of the status of the old maid.
6. One more destructive reason of such marriage
without love is in revenge former or former. People can enter new marriage with
other person which is not loved, only to revenge the former elect or the
darling.
7. Some suffer from a complex of the ideal child which
is expressed in desire to correspond to wishes of parents. The opinion of
parents therefore if parents approve the choice, then sometimes people marry,
even without thinking that this person can be unloved is important for them.
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