What it is never impossible to tell to the man

Close relations assume a certain frankness: quite often partners can tell each other anything. Thus there are several things which can never be spoken to the man.

To touch his mother

The relations with the mother-in-law - potential or already real - for many women become one of the most difficult subjects. Even in the most ideal stories for certain there will be roughnesses and mutual claims. The mother-in-law can irritate even with phrases or insignificant acts. You can discuss as much as necessary all this with the parents or girlfriends, however it is impossible to tell to the man about his mother something with a hint on a negative categorically. For men often mother is main "shrine", a reference point and a criterion of many things.

It is much worse if with mother of the husband or the guy there are bad relations. The mother-in-law can disturb really your family life, spoil to you mood and even to do frank mucks. However even in such difficult situations negatively it is forbidden to express this woman. Especially, if the spouse looks with adoration at this "shrew" who just unflatteringly spoke of your culinary abilities or lectured for dust on furniture. You want to break a situation - act delicately, hints and cunning.

To discuss its sexual opportunities

If you intend to live with the man for many years, but he does not satisfy you in the sexual plan, you have two options. The first - to leave it. It sounds shockingly and is more likely an exception as there is a mass of ways to change a situation. It is also the second option. You will need a lot of time, patience, a step and even cunning. It is that case when to the man which case it is impossible to tell the truth. To hear an unflattering review of the sexual abilities or the size of advantage - the present tragedy for the man.

If something does not suit you, it is necessary to work extremely delicately. Begin with hints and jokes. Gradually you pass to straight talks. If the situation can be changed, it in your forces, however to criticize the man in sex - means to destroy every chance of harmony in a bed.

To compare it to former

The fact that in your life there was other partner (or a little) is already unpleasant for the present man in itself. He for certain will want to feel if not as the first, then the only thing. For this reason any reminders on former should be excluded. But the biggest crime - to compare to them your man. You should not do it even in its advantage, even in trifles, even for fun. You tell about the previous relations neutrally as just about experience, and try to do it as seldom as possible. If you risk to compare somehow the man to former, he surely will remember it, will conjecture details and will give out to you in a hypertrophied form at the first quarrel.

By the way, it is not recommended to admire at your partner in life not only the ex-boyfriends, but also in general any men, whether it be Leonardo Dicaprio or the neighbor in an entrance Vasya.

To share physiological details

Long and close relations assume high degree of intimacy. Quite perhaps, you will want to share the most intimate with darling, and it is good. It is bad if this intimate concerns physiological details of your organism or nuances of health. At all you should not tell the man about the nature of allocations or suddenly festered gum: tell of these illnesses to the gynecologist and the stomatologist respectively better. Of course, about some serious disease demanding long set phrase it is just necessary to tell, and here about trifles which are eliminated for couple of days, it is not obligatory to report.

You should not devote the man and in an essence of cosmetic procedures which you undergo. Some women thereby though to show how they carefully look after the appearance and how many resources put in it. However the man hardly wants to be aware of anti-cellulite massages and fillers in nasolabial folds. Let better him think that all your beauty - is natural.

To doubt its abilities

"To you too hard such business".

"It is unlikely you will be able to repair it".

"You will not cope with the kid alone".

"Do not go to that area, you can be robbed there"

These and dozens of other similar phrases can be the absolute truth. However it is impossible to say them in relation to your man categorically: even if it is dictated by your care, your partner will apprehend everything differently. You will let it know that you doubt its abilities - intellectual or physical. Even if he internally agrees with similar statements, to hear them from your lips slishko it will be offensive for him. Do you doubt or worry? Try to make so that the man avoided a situation, difficult for it. And in all other cases just do not cost the pessimistic assumptions.

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