Why to the modern man to marry? I

f earlier the marriage was business natural, now young people begin to doubt and whether it is necessary for them. What pluses and minuses does marriage have? Why to the modern man the press in the passport?

First of all, marriage is responsibility. Responsibility not only for themselves, but also for the wife and also children who will appear in the near future.

Many do not understand why to marry if the intimate proximity can be found on the party with almost any pleasant girl. The housemaid can clean up the house, and it is quite possible to eat also in cafe. Even cheaper it will turn out, than to support the wife. And most important, any responsibility! Live as you want, come when you want, do that you want. Has to nothing to nobody.

Wrong reasons for marriage

Recently more often marriages consist for one of several reasons:

· Unplanned pregnancy;

· Strong passion;

· Environment pressure;

· Manipulation of the darling.

Because people began to approach marriage as to something temporary, the number of divorces grows. More and more children grow without fathers who do not want to be responsible. And it is very sad. The introduction of two adults in marriage has to be the considered and weighed decision. And only then it is possible to become happy for the rest of life.

Native person

If a choice of the companion is made correctly, not hurriedly, you automatically get to yourself the ally. You do not look at a wrapper. The appearance is often deceptive. The most important that your souls were a family.

The loving wife is an inspiration of the man. It is its power source. It will always be near, will support when everything falls. Will not allow to lose courage. The wise woman will allow you to become successful and happy.

The wife will rejoice together with you when affairs go uphill. This is the only person after parents who will not envy and gloat over. Because now you are uniform. Your failures are its failures.

End to romanticism?

There is a statement that after in the passport the press, the romanticism comes to an end. The wife automatically becomes angry and not well-groomed, and the husband is called all bad words which were told to males.

It is natural if after a campaign in the REGISTRY OFFICE both of you at once begin to behave disrespectfully on the relation the friend to the friend, nothing good will turn out. If to consider the wife only as the free housemaid, it to very few people will be pleasant.

Everything depends on you! If you really love the darling if you want her to be happy, please her just more often. A bouquet of flowers accidentally, the invitation in cafe, the feasible help with the house. Believe, it will estimate it. And you will never lose the girl in love who will always look at you with admiration. The woman by the nature very soft, allow it to feel protected near you.

Marriage pluses

· The beloved always is near. You fall asleep and wake up together.

· After it is got married, you become uniform. Now you are family, all at you the general. Your and my concerns only personal care products, clothes and footwear.

· You have an assistant who will carry out instructions with all responsibility because as a result everything becomes for itself.

· It is together much simpler to fight against the addictions acquired prior to a wedding.

· You are always waited by houses, for you worry, love you and joyfully meet.

· Lawful children appear only in the registered marriage. These are your successors for whom you as the man, you are responsible. It is possible just to fit in, of course, in the column "father" and to do without wedding, but be sure that the child when grows, will ask a question concerning different surnames with mother.

· Regular sex life with the only woman to whom you trust – too plus. Not each reasonable girl will agree to be as the mistress for many years. Marital fidelity – the best protection against various venereal diseases.

Marriage minuses

The aspiration to freedom, chaotic sexual communications and desire to do what is wantedwhat is wanted, leads to stains, or unwillingness to marry in general.

· If you do not move forward, you do not stand still, and move back. Family life as escalator. If not to work on the relations, everything becomes monotonous, boring, and eventually collapses.

· It is impossible to live in family only for himself.

· The official relations are expenses not only financial, but also moral.

· Children in general cost very much. It is necessary or think how to earn more, or to work more. And can be even to begin to save.

· All friends married, nobody lives happily - it is as an occasion to think whether it is worth marrying. Though actually is an occasion to understand that a problem of unsuccessful marriages only in egoism of one or both partners.

If you want to grow up spiritually, to become better, stronger, to take the responsibility and to become the best husband and the father – marry. Otherwise, do not do unfortunate yourself, the spouse and children who will appear in the course of the relations.

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